Q: I am best friends with a guy who suffers with severe bouts of anxiety and depression.  And his symptoms seem to be getting worse. He refuses to go on anti-depressants  for fear that it will ruin his interest in sex as well as performance. It pains me to see a grown man suffering and self-sabotaging, and I wonder if there is anything I can do to help?

Q: It takes me a long time to get aroused which is often a problem. Men get frustrated and bored and often feel dejected as a result. I know many women share my experience and I was wondering if there is any way to speed up the arousal process?

Q: I have been involved with a man since New Years and we have been intimate on several occasions. Every time he climaxes I somehow don’t get the sense that he is ejaculating. Am I crazy or can he be faking his orgasms? If so, why?

Q: I am dating a man who is significantly younger than me and loving it! The problem is that he keeps asking me to go “completely bare down there.” Am I being old-fashioned if I refuse to shave off all my pubic hair for him?

Q: I have never been into porn which as a man many women think is unusual. How can I ease myself into it and learn how to enjoy it with the women I date?

Q: I recently met a man through mutual friends and we have been closely involved for the past three months. As we started to get intimate he confessed to being a virgin. Do you think this is natural for a man in his mid 30's or should I have reason to be concerned about his sexual orientation, history etc.